The Real Cost of Performance Anxiety (and How You Can Fix It in Just 3 Sessions)

If you were ever kept up at night tossing and turning in a cold sweat, feeling sick to your stomach, and woke up dreading the day ahead, chances are you understand what anxiety feels like.

The reality is that most people suffering with anxiety and specifically performance anxiety feel like they are stuck in this cycle for life, BUT it doesn’t have to be this way.

Let’s get real for a second: Performance anxiety isn’t just some minor inconvenience we can brush off. It’s a problem that affects every part of our life—our career, our relationships, our health, our confidence, and especially our bank account.

If you’ve ever felt your stomach drop, your heart race, or your mind go blank right before an important presentation, meeting, or performance, you know exactly what I’m talking about. You’re not just nervous; you’re paralyzed by fear.

And the cost?

Well, it’s bigger than most people realize.

The Hidden Costs of Performance Anxiety
You might think, “Okay, so I get nervous. Big deal.” But have you ever thought about what this anxiety is actually costing you?

Missed Promotions and Income:
You know you’re good at what you do. You’ve put in the hours, you’ve mastered your field, but when it’s time to show up—when it’s time to speak, perform, or lead—you freeze. And that freeze might just be the thing that keeps hard working people stuck. It’s what’s holding you back from getting that next raise, promotion, or commission check. The opportunities slip away, and you watch someone else get the recognition and reward that should have been yours. Ouch! I have been there.

When I think back to when I owned my fitness business of 20 years and realize that I was too shy and afraid to self promote, I also see that this was a very expensive problem to have. Everybody missed out! Qualified ladies could have joined an amazing and supportive community while having fun and getting into the best shape of their life and my business and reputation could have soared exponentially.


Every time you avoid stepping up or stumble through an important moment, like I did, it chips away at how others see us—and worse, how we see ourselves.

You start doubting your own abilities.

You might be the most knowledgeable person in the room, but when you can’t show that to others, it leaves you feeling inadequate, and even worse, people start treating you that way. I felt “not good enough” for way too long and felt a constant need to prove myself to others. The comparison game became exhausting and I felt like I couldn’t win.


The constant worry, fear, and stress take a toll on your mental and physical health. You spend days dreading an upcoming events and nights replaying every moment in your head, filled with regret. The emotional strain can leave you feeling drained, exhausted, and even burned out. I also remember feeling shame, because I knew I could be further along, and instead of taking bold action I watched the world go by.


Here’s the thing: Most people suffering from performance anxiety feel like they’re doomed. Maybe you’ve tried techniques like deep breathing, visualization, or even therapy, only to find yourself back in the same place—terrified, frustrated, and unable to break free. It’s like carrying a weight on your chest that only gets heavier.

But what if I told you that it doesn’t have to be this way? That there’s an easy solution you’ve probably never even heard of?

The Solution is Simpler Than You Think
What most people don’t realize is that you don’t need years of therapy, countless self-help books, or endless “practice” to overcome performance anxiety. There’s a faster way to get results—a way that helps you rewire the very source of your fear, right where it lives in your subconscious mind.

In just three sessions, you can experience a life-changing transformation that frees you from the grip of performance anxiety for good. This isn’t a band-aid solution; it’s about eliminating the root cause of your fear so you can step up, speak out, and perform at your best without that crippling anxiety holding you back.

What’s Life Like After the Anxiety?


Picture this: You walk into a room filled with people, ready to present, speak, or perform. Your heart is steady, your mind is clear, your voice sounds like velvet, and your words flow effortlessly. You feel completely in control, calm, and confident. The fear that used to cripple you is gone. You no longer spend days dreading these moments or nights beating yourself up for what you didn’t say.

Now, you’re the person who seizes opportunities, gets the promotion, earns the respect, and finally feels worthy of the recognition you’ve always deserved.

You Don’t Have to Stay Stuck
Performance anxiety is real, and it costs you more than you may realize. But it doesn’t have to be your story forever. You deserve a solution that actually works—one that can deliver life-changing results in just a short time.

Why let this hold you back when you can finally break free? The answer is within reach, and in just three sessions, your life can look completely different.